How I Manage to be Happy, Relaxed and Contented with what Life has to Offer!

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Life is about Balance!

Already many people asked me how I manage to be happy? For me it's all about balance in life. I always hear complaining stories about life. Complaints about work, complaints about the employer, complaints about family. I already heard a lot of toxic complaints. But my idea about life is that every day is a blessing and every problem is there to be solved like a challenge. Experience of life is a mystery: we cannot always be happy, but also should not always be full of sadness and sorrows. Day by day we should enjoy that unique experience of our lives because nothing is really permanent. It will just pass by.






How to handle bad Feelings

As I write this message I feel not really well anyway. Yeah, I am now feeling a little bit sick. I have a cold. I am just sitting beside my laptop, having a hot coffee while sharing this story. And instead to complain about feeling bad I said to myself (and to my cold) "Cold just enjoy your stay but later you're gone again! Thank you for coming and let me experience you as I know I don't like you but still you like to visit me. And later on just go away, and I thank you for your stay! Hehehe..."

This is what I learned from my father! If you are not feeling well... It's okay, accept it until it's gone! Nobody expects you to love it but it's normal... Instead of staying in bed and feeling miserable just get up, enjoy talking to yourself in positive words and move your body. Our bad feelings will go away... If we don't entertain them they won't stay!


Spending time in Nature is a great Recipe!

And I said balance! I want to show you a few pictures of me together with a friend from November 2024! We were having fun outside! Nature can help us to think more positive and forget negative thoughts.
Yes, enjoying time in nature is one of my ways to enjoy life and not to complain, even if it is not always easy!
Yeah! Here in Hong Kong there are so many nice places to visit! If I go there I can relax and enjoy my time without worrying anymore about anything.

This place is in Tai Po, Hong Kong!
It's a perfect place for biking! And Taipo is a quite place as well, far from the crowded city. There aren't many people. As I am living and working in the city I sometimes really need calm places like this. It's good for my peace of mind and also a very nice spot for my jogging whenever I want and have enough time.











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 4 days ago  

Life can be hard but so we really should know how to handle it, we should also know when to relax and chill - for a happy life. Although it's not easy talaga, still, we should try no. ✨💃

Hi @ruffatotmeee! Thank you for dropping your very nice comments! All you said is true... We really need to balance our life and taking care of our feelings.

Glad to read this. Thank you for sharing some helpful advice!

Thank you @riona09. I hope it enlightens you... Have a peaceful day ahead with your family.

Hello po ,it's important to manage your emotions properly po because sometimes our emotions affects our lifestyle

Yes, the art is to try to accept these things one cannot change (at least not as of the moment) and make the best out of it.

Hi @gen-quimba! Looking pretty and healthier. I am cheering you on for the attainable recipe to be happy. I wish you happier days ahead.😍

Thanks so much for your sweet comment @nicolebanilad! 😍

Thanks for sharing this
Balance is so essential in our day to day

You are welcome @rkm1okpoti, thanks for your nice comment!